“We cultivate love when we allow our most vulnerable and powerful selves to be deeply seen and known, and when we honor the spiritual connection that grows from that offering with trust, respect, kindness, and affection. Love is not something we give or get; it is something that we nurture and grow, a connection that can only be cultivated between two people when it exists within each one of them – we can only love others as much as we love ourselves. Shame, blame, disrespect, betrayal, and the withholding of affection damage the roots from which love grows. Love can only survive if they are acknowledged, heal, and rare.”— Brené Brown
when you realise relationships are projections
it makes everything seem surreal but more real? like how you ‘fit’ into people and face opposition so you can activate this in yourself? why we attract to people like magnets because we are hiding away in there? so strange but i only know you from knowing me and i dont know me so i have to know you
